Are you Ready to Indulge in Some Self Improvement?

By David Cameron Gikandi


It can be very hard to come to the conclusion that we can benefit from self improvement. Even the easiest improvement techniques become impossible. Unless an individual is inclined to admit they have faults, the area of self improvement hints they receive of no use. Because of that, it is close to impossible to develop a program of self help that is worthy of offering to everyone.

Even though we often want to be perfect, we always have areas that can be improved upon. It may simply be that we lack motivation. Self confidence issues may stand in our way. It may not be comfortable interacting with others. The majority of things that stop us are areas that can use some self improvement.

Before getting started with a self improvement workout, it helps to decide what areas you are ready to improve on. When you don't have a system of working with it is hard to continue. Even people who feel they are okay where they are, there is room for improvements. We are none of us perfect, not anyone, and that is as it should be.

Some are probably asking what would cause me to consider imperfection is good. Think about it like this. If anyone was able to reach a perfect life they would probably look down on the rest of us. you would be superior to others and humility would have no place in their lives. That would do great harm to the rest of us who are yet to attained perfection.

Along with that, there would be no room for growth if we could attain perfection. That would surely lead to boredom, wouldn't it? The world would grow dim if there was nothing left to work for.

Just realizing that we all could stand some adjustments in our lives, makes it possible to provide someone with a remedy for their problems if they can recognize them. Here is where it gets easier to reach out to others who realize they need some adjusting. It makes no difference what efforts are put forth, until someone is ready for improvement they will not even try.

Now that that is behind us, you are likely wondering if there is anything here to really get into. Just don't forget that there is real value in the previous paragraphs. Are you ready for a more in-depth look at improving yourself.

Many people consider the most often expressed area that requires self improvement is long held anger. Indeed, anger has a way of assuming a life all its own if it's left without being dealt with. If used properly to correct a wrong, anger is a good motivator. It's when it is allowed to grow that can bring harm. If you want some good advice, use your anger well, but then render it incapacitated.

Fear must be the next most harmful emotion. Everyone is instilled with the protective instinct known as fear. Fear used correctly causes us to pause and take stock of the situation without running headlong into danger. It's fear that motivates us to look both ways before entering the crosswalk. This instinct protects us. It's misplaced fear that makes us panic when entering the vicinity of traffic.

After facing down our biggest challenges to success; the time has come to indulge in gratitude. Being grateful for our uniqueness as a person even in the light of our imperfection is the greatest gift to give yourself. It's in our uniqueness that we find the most joy, and that's what we're all searching for.




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